What happens when sorrow and shame are used to justify the killing of the innocent? On a recent CareCast episode, Roland Warren and Vincent DiCaro tackle one of the most troubling statements yet from a prominent Christian leader—one that could reshape the church’s moral compass on life…unless we speak up.
NT Wright’s recent comments suggesting that abortion may sometimes be “the best thing to do” within a Christian context have sparked confusion and concern. In this thought-provoking conversation, Roland and Vincent unpack the spiritual and cultural consequences of such ideas—and why the church must lead with unwavering clarity, compassion, and truth.
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#1 Sorrow and Shame Are Not Signs of Godliness
Roland and Vincent caution that when sorrow and shame accompany a decision, it’s not honoring to God. You can have sorrow, and it still be honoring to God, Roland explains, but when you link sorrow with shame, you’ve stepped outside God’s will.
Takeaway: Just because something feels hard or painful doesn’t mean it’s right. God’s will never pairs shame with righteousness. Roland asks, When did you ever hear of doing a godly act with sorrow and shame?
#2 Human Worth Is Not Determined by Circumstance
Vincent and Roland challenge the deeply flawed reasoning that justifies abortion based on conception through rape or incest. He’s saying the circumstances of this child’s conception determine their humanity and worth, Roland notes. That’s not just bad theology—it’s dangerous. If we accept that view, we’re affirming a belief that has led to some of the most heinous acts in human history, says Roland Warren.
Takeaway: The gospel affirms the inherent dignity of every human life, regardless of how it began.
#3 Christians Must Choose Biblical Clarity Over Cultural Confusion
When prominent pastors bless abortion clinics, and Christian thinkers soften the truth, the result is confusion in the pews. Roland and Vincent remind listeners: ideas have consequences—and silence is not an option.
Takeaway: The church must reclaim its voice in the fight for life, rooted in Scripture, not public opinion. We throw away everything we know to protect abortion…That’s why the church must lead biblically, says Vince DiCaro
Listen now to the full CareCast episode and consider: Are we shaping our theology to fit the culture—or letting Scripture shape our convictions?